Authentic Relating is an approach to cultivating connection with others via integrity, openness and empathy. This path leads to mutually rewarding and genuine relationships.
Deep Listening Sessions are facilitated conversations between you and an experienced Listener. The intention is for you to feel heard and have a safe uninterrupted space to process your experiences with an empathetic partner.
Meditation is a mindfulness practice of focusing the mind on a particular object, thought, mantra or activity to train attention and awareness and achieve a mentally clear and emotionally calm and stable state.
Inner child work recognizes that we all have an inner child residing within us from the parts of ourselves that split at the moment of traumatic events and remain unhealed. We resolve the childhood emotions and experiences this inner child still holds, and harness the joy, innocence, and confidence that were your birthright.
Affirmations are positive statements that help you to overwrite any limiting or negative beliefs you may have about yourself or about not being able to do something, and reprogram your mind with positive thoughts and beliefs which instill compassion, confidence, positivity, ambition and much more. Rapid healing and manifestation is possible when you affirm yourself often with full embrace.
We are all a part of nature. The plant queendom is generous and abundant. We work alongside our plant allies to create therapeutic botanical medicines that support your healing journey.
Stay Present with your own felt physical and emotional experiences.
Express what feels true for you in the moment.
Periodically check in with yourself to reasses your wants, needs and desires.
Request feedback or support if desired.
Respect stated boundaries.
Interact with the intention of understanding and connection.
Ask questions that arise from a place of genuine curiosity.
Practice active listening.
Practice nonviolent communication.
When we welcome ourselves and our experience, we can learn to welcome others as they are, without fixing them, changing them, judging them, pushing them away or guarding against them.
Welcome whatever arises in your awareness and perception, no matter what it is. Welcome negative feelings, fears, anger, sadness, in yourself and others.
Notice your assumptions and check them out in reality, with others. If they are wrong, let them go.
We experience reality subjectively. We are all carrying around stories, perspectives, past experiences, and we sometimes have a tendency to project onto the present moment and people we are interacting with. If you have a story about what's going on, check in with the other person to confirm its validity or learn what their truth is so that you can communicate aligned on the same page.
When we make other people and circumstances the source of our experience, we give away our power. Owning your experience, finding the source of it inside of yourself, gives you back your power so that you can change, evolve and grow.
The underlying premise of owning your experience is that everything that occurs in your field of awareness stems from a world-view and value system that is uniquely yours.
Take responsibility for your own experience. Whatever experience you're having, it's yours and yours only. Explore it, find the source of it and let it guide you into knowing yourself as deeply and fully as possible.
Nothing needs to change in the external world when you own your experience.
Revealing ourselves is a way of being seen and known for who we are. It is a willingness to come out of hiding, to take the mask off, to let the guard down and be vulnerable and available for human connection.
Hide nothing, be vulnerable, invite others into your world.
Make the implicit - the unspoken, unexpressed, undeclared, unstated, unacknowledged - explicity, stated clearly and in detail, leaving no room for confusion or doubt.
Make the unconscious conscious. Let yourself be seen and known.
Be aware of your habituated patterns of relating and explore stepping outside of them.
Connect with your desires/impulses and practice acting upon them responsibly.
Slow down and allow space for silence and reflection.
Bring a willingness to relax, have fun and play with others.
Whatever this means to you! While honoring yourself, we invite you to step right up to the edge of your boundaries. Explore where they come from and how to nurture them.
Notice your comfort zone and any room for expansion. Play with it.
Bring parts of yourself that historically you may not have been welcome to.
The more of ‘you’ that is present, the more there is for me and others to connect with.
Being present means being consciously aware of your physical, emotional and mental bodies responding to the current context, dynamic or interaction.
When you notice your attention drifting to another place or time, lovingly bring it back to the here and now.
The Love Doula ~ Forest Soleil
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